Sixty Minutes – Channel Nine – Liz Hayes: Two Men and Two Babies

It used to be that "Delhi belly" meant something less than pleasant was on its way. Well not any longer.

It could now mean you've made the ultimate decision, and hired a womb. An Indian woman whose taken on the job of giving birth to your child.

India has now become a major player in the baby-making business providing everything you need. Donor sperm, eggs and wombs-for-rent can all be found under the one fertility clinic roof.

I travelled to India to meet up with Peter and Trevor, a gay couple from Melbourne who had made the investment.

Nine months before they'd begun the pregnancy process after purchasing eggs from a donor and engaging the services of a surrogate, at a Mumbai fertility clinic.

They're now the proud, genetic fathers of twin girls.

None of this is new, of course. In America, for hundreds of thousands of dollars you can do the same. In India, it's much cheaper and there are fewer rules about who gets to be a parent this way.

Making babies is now something anyone can do. Single men and women, gay and straight, combinations of all kinds can sign up today!

And if you're a man, you don't even have to turn up to make a "deposit". You can courier your frozen sperm to the clinic and it will take care of the rest.

As long as you make the trip nine months later, and the bills are paid, that little bundle of joy is yours.

Yes, yes, it is the ultimate Indian outsourcing industry.

Women, so many of them, are prepared to sell their eggs or carry someone else's child for a fee. And there are plenty of banks of sperm. But, if you've ever been to India, it's not entirely a surprise.

Poverty is so very real for many families that when the chance to make more money in nine months than most could make in nineteen years comes along, it's a no-brainer.

The surrogates I met are young mothers with children of their own. The money they earn will make an enormous difference to their lives, although I got the feeling that giving birth to babies for gay couples wasn't high on their agenda.

And their husbands took some convincing, too. Many didn't believe pregnancy was possible without sexual contact. But, once the birds and the bees of the test tube tango was explained, all was well.

Still, surrogacy is often done in secrecy. Women don't usually want others to know and are afraid of the shame they may suffer for doing so. So they pretend the baby they're carrying is theirs and then, when it fails to come home with them, claim that the worst has happened. The baby has died.

It's a complicated and emotionally charged issue for everyone.

Dip your toe into the argument about the rights and wrongs of children brought into the world this way and prepare for a battle royal. I'm already suffering a nasty chaffing from the fence I know I'm straddling, but really, I don't know if this is a good or bad thing.

Plenty will tell you that making babies this way doesn't lessen their commitment or love for their children. Quite the opposite.

Perhaps it's because it's a business, I feel this unease. I'm not sure.

What I am sure of is it's a reality … and it isn't going away.

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Surrogacy for Gay Men – A Free Seminar to be held in Melbourne on 06 June 2009

SURROGACY FORUM FOR GAY MEN
Gay Dads Australia
www.gaydadsaustralia.com
info@gaydadsaustralia.com

JUNE 06 2009
2:00-4.00pm

Many Gay men are now becoming Dads via surrogacy. There are Surrogacy Agencies in the United States, Canada and India all helping Australian Gay men become fathers.

Presented by members of Gay Dads Australia, the forum will be held in Melbourne and provide an opportunity for local gay men to find out more about Surrogacy and the options available in countries such as the USA, Canada and India. There is no cost to attend.  The forum will be held on Saturday 06 June 2009 from 2 to 4 pm.

This is a great opportunity for interested gay singles or couples to have some of their questions answered.

- how does surrogacy work?
- how do the surrogacy laws work in the US, Canada, India?
- how do I bring my child back into Australia?
- can anyone do it
- how much does it cost

For more information contact
Gay Dads Australia
info@gaydadsaustralia.com

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Sydney Star Observer '- “Gay Adoption Report Delayed” by Ani Lamont

A final report into the NSW same-sex adoption inquiry has been postponed after the NSW Attorney General intervened in an Administrative Decisions Tribunal decision.

The highly anticipated report was due last month but has been held up while a decision is rendered in a landmark same-sex foster case, which went on appeal before the Administrative Decisions Tribunal two weeks ago.

The Wesley Mission last month appealed the decision from the 2008 case ‘OV and another v QZ and another’, in which it was found the religious-based organisation had unfairly discriminated against a same-sex couple who had applied to become foster parents.

The original case found that the organisation was not protected by religious exemptions in the Anti-Discrimination Act in its decisions to deny same-sex couples access to its foster services.

Wesley Mission was subsequently required to pay $10,000 in damages and to review its services to eliminate practices which discriminated against homosexuals.

The organisation has since appealed to the ADT to take the case to the Supreme Court.

Sydney Star Observer understands that Wesley’s action came backed by a statement from NSW Attorney General John Hatzistergos, who intervened in the case. He is said to have made a submission pointing out the state’s reliance on religious organisations for community services.

The Star has requested a copy of the submission from both the ADT and the Attorney General’s office and is awaiting a response.

A spokesman for the Attorney General’s office denied that any comments made to the ADT favoured either side of the case.

“The Attorney’s intervention in the case is not to ‘back’ or ‘support’ one party over the other. The Attorney has intervened to assist the Tribunal by providing a view as to the Government’s understanding of the effect of certain statutory provisions in the Anti-Discrimination Act,” he said.

It is expected that a decision will not be made on the Wesley appeal case for several months

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Australian Gay and Lesbian Law Blog - “Queensland to Legalise Surrogacy” by Stephen Page

Stephen Page from the Australian Gay and Lesbian Law Blog is always quick with the news and his blog is one I read daily. He has just posted the Ministerial Media Statement about the legalisation of surrogacy in Queensland:

Altruistic Surrogacy to be decriminalised in Queensland

The Bligh Government will decriminalise altruistic surrogacy in Queensland, giving hundreds of women and couples the opportunity to have children.

Premier Anna Bligh said the decision of the government today would give Queenslanders who were unable to conceive a child fresh hope of starting a family.

"As a mother, I know the incredible joys parenthood can bring," Ms Bligh said.

"Today's decision means Queenslanders who are not able to conceive a child of their own will now have a legal avenue to do so.

"The decision follows the unanimous recommendation of a Joint Parliamentary Committee last year, to change the current Queensland law which makes all forms of surrogacy illegal.The committee recommended decriminalising the practice of altruistic surrogacy - where a woman agrees to bear a child for another person, for no financial gain or personal benefit.

"Cabinet has provided in principle support for the committee's recommendations, and we have agreed to take the necessary action to see the practice of altruistic surrogacy decriminalised.

"The reality is, for some people, surrogacy is their only chance of starting a family. It is not fair that their genuine efforts to do so could land them in jail, or see them face fines of up to $10,000.

"Queensland is currently the only state in Australia where altruistic surrogacy is considered a crime, punishable by jail.

"This government's decision will ensure Queenslanders now have the chance to consider this option, without fear of a prison sentence."

Attorney-General Cameron Dick said that the decriminalisation of altruistic surrogacy has a range of regulatory implications regarding parentage in Queensland.

"The Government will develop a mechanism to allow the transfer of legal parentage from the birth mother to the child's intending parents in altruistic surrogacy arrangements," Mr Dick said.

"This legal framework to support transfer of legal parentage is an issue that requires close consideration by governments at both the state and federal level."

Mr Dick said the national Standing Committee of Attorneys-General is set to discuss this issue at its next meeting in August this year.

"It is important that we achieve some level of cross-jurisdictional consistency, to ensure no child in Australia is disadvantaged."
He said the committee had also recommended the government conduct a review of the status of children being cared for by same-sex parents.

"This is a complex and sensitive issue that attracts strong and diverse views but the government is committing to undertake a review of the legal status of children being cared for by same-sex parents. "

At the end of the day, we want to ensure that all people who want to be parents have the opportunity to be - and most importantly, that all children are treated equally."

Ms Bligh said commercial surrogacy will remain illegal.

"We do not agree with the practice of people using surrogacy as a means of making money.

"Anyone involved in this practice will continue to face fines of up to $10,000 or a maximum of three years imprisonment.

"The legislative changes to decriminalise altruistic surrogacy will be in place by the end of the year.

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ABC Online - “Gay parents urge federal-state reform” by Nicole Butler

Lobby groups in Qld say Premier Anna Bligh has turned a blind eye to the plight of gay parents. (Reuters: Max Rossi, file photo)

Audio: Same sex couples in Queensland push for equal parental rights. (AM)


The Prime Minister might be pushing ahead with same sex law reform but state Labor governments in Queensland and South Australia are not following the federal lead.

Gay and lesbian couples are not recognised in the two states and they say living under two contradictory legal systems is cruel, particularly when children are involved.

Lobby groups in Queensland say Premier Anna Bligh has turned a blind eye to the plight of gay parents, and they want that influential Queenslander, Prime Minister Kevin Rudd, to help them.

Louise DuChesne and Molly Galea are a lesbian couple living in Brisbane and discovering the joys of parenthood to 17-month-old twins Joseph and Lucienne.

Ms Galea is the children's biological mother, but as the non-biological mother, Ms DuChesne is also fighting for her parental rights because Queensland, like South Australia, does not recognise same sex couples.

"I'm not legally validated or legally acknowledged but I mean the piece of paper is important, being on the birth certificate is important," she said.

"The way we came into this was both of us trying to get pregnant and it was that Molly was the one who got pregnant. I have two children. It is not like I need children of my own. These are my children."

But the twins are not Ms DuChesne's children in the eyes of the law in Queensland.

At a federal level it is a different story. Mr Rudd is pushing ahead with his same sex law reform so that by July even Centrelink will recognise gay couples.

It is this contradiction between Commonwealth and state that is making things confusing and difficult for same sex partners.

Ms Galea says problems regularly crop up in day to day life.

"There is things like health services may refuse Louise being able to take them to health services, because Louise isn't actually a guardian, so that is a bit insulting," she said.

"But also if I died, I would want Louise to be bringing up the children, obviously, as their mother. But because she is not seen as the next of kin, there might be some hoops to jump through."

Shelley Argent is the national spokesperson of PFLAG - Parents and Friends of Gays and Lesbians.

She agrees the inconsistency between federal laws and those in Queensland is cruel and insulting.

"Couples could come from another state who are recognised, they move into Queensland and Queensland does recognise them but they don't recognise their own couples here in Queensland," she said.

Ms Argent says Premier Bligh is deliberately avoiding the issue of same sex rights in Queensland now that she has won the state election.

"They initially phoned me saying would I like a meeting and now, a month later, they are saying send in an email or a letter and we will consider it," she said.

Ms Bligh's office did not return the ABC's calls, nor did Queensland's Attorney-General.

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Australian Gay and Lesbian Law Blog - “Queensland to Legalise Altruistic Surrogacy” by Stephen Page

Fresh from her re-election, Queensland Premier Anna Bligh has announced that Queensland will legalise altruistic surrogacy by the end of this year.

She also indicated that Labor MP's will not have the choice of a conscience vote: they will have to toe the party line, which is to allow this change through.

The Premier's approach is consistent with an all party committee, chaired by former Attorney-General Linda Lavarch, which recommended that altruistic surrogacy in Queensland be permitted..

Queensland currently has the most regressive laws in the country. All surrogacy is banned. Any Queenslander entering into a surrogacy arrangement, whether in Queensland or anywhere else int he world, commits an offence in Queensland.

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The Age – "NSW slow to adopt parent provision”

NSW is lagging behind other states because, without a parenting order, a donor or co-parent has no legal rights, a same-sex parenting expert says. Professor Jenni Millbank, from the Faculty of Law at the University of Technology, says there is a growing awareness in the community that "not everybody raising a child is their biological parent".

But unlike in Western Australia, the ACT and Northern Territory, where the partner of the biological parent is automatically awarded co-parent status, much like the male partner of a woman who conceives through IVF, there is no such provision in NSW.

Professor Millbank says while proof of ongoing involvement in the life of the child can be used in court in the event of a dispute, "there is no excuse for NSW to be so slow at recognising parenting rights for same-sex couples".

A spokesman for Attorney-General John Hatzistergos says his Victorian counterpart, Rob Hulls, has indicated his intention to raise the issue of same-sex parental rights at this week's Standing Committee of Attorneys-General meeting. But he says the Iemma Government has no plans to update NSW legislation.

Research conducted in Australia and the US shows up to 10percent of gay men and 20percent of lesbians are parents. Up to half of these parents had children in a previous heterosexual relationship, but this proportion appears to be declining.

The 2006 Private Lives report which surveyed 5476 lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex people across Australia found 25.6percent had children while a 2005 Victorian Gay and Lesbian Rights Lobby report indicated that 18.6percent had children.

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